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She’s not a gold digger. She’s just wired for greatness.
I used to think hypergamy was just some bullsh*t, toxic manosphere ideology. You know the type:“She only wants a man with money, status, and looks.”“Women are disloyal.”“Hypergamy means she’ll leave you the second she meets someone better.” That kind of rhetoric...
For The Man Who’s Tired of Giving His All.
There’s a certain kind of burnout that most men don’t talk about. It’s not from being lazy.It’s not from a lack of effort.It’s from giving everything you’ve got… and still not seeing the results. You’re building your business or career.You’re putting yourself out...
MASCULINITY & EMOTIONAL POWER
You’re not failing because you’re too emotional. You’re failing because you don’t know how to hold it. There was a version of me that could charm a woman, crush a sales call, and light up a room…But underneath it all, I was leaking power everywhere. In dating, I’d...
The Hustle Debate Is Just Another Distraction.
You’ve got one crowd telling you to hustle 12 hours a day, never sleep, and treat burnout like a trophy. Then you’ve got another group telling you to optimize everything to work 3 hours a day on a beach in Tulum while you bathe your nervous system in...
Why Dating Feels So Hard
(And How To Make It Easy) Let’s address something that’s weighing heavily on a lot of men right now: Dating feels hard. You’re doing the inner work, trying to lead with integrity, trying not to play games… And yet,You get ghosted.You get breadcrumbed.You feel like...
Real growth starts when you stop running from your patterns
There’s a version of you that knows he’s powerful. But sometimes, life buries that version under layers of fear, guilt, and “not enough.”That’s where Alan Meyer found himself right when we first met. Despite being intelligent, self-aware, and deeply heart-centered…...
I Don’t Abandon Myself to Keep the Peace Anymore
Let’s talk about that one friend. You know the one. They get weird when you’re not available. Suddenly, you’re “acting different,” or “not showing up like you used to.”And now you’re in a silent emotional courtroom defending yourself against charges… of...
The Fear of Being Seen Is What’s Keeping You Broke
I'd like to be real with you for a second: You might be an entrepreneur trying to grow your business. You might be someone with big ideas, sitting on a side hustle you haven’t launched yet. Maybe you want to start posting content to build your brand, grow your...
When I Realized I Was the Problem in My Dating Life
If any part of this hits, it’s probably because you’ve been there too. You're doing the work, showing up as a good man, and still getting met with disrespect, mixed signals, or cold energy. I’ve been through it more times than I’d like to admit.But here’s what I’ve...
🧠 Monday Mastery: Rewire to Rise
Happy Monday, folks! Most men want more success. More money. More freedom. More attraction. But they skip the one thing that makes it all possible: Inner mastery. They hit the gym, track macros, hustle in business…But never stop to ask: “Who am I being while I do...
From Overthinking to $70K in 3 Weeks
Drew's Breakthrough Transformation Drew was stuck.Not because he lacked ambition, but because every time he made progress, he’d crash. He’d take one step forward… then burn out.He was living in a constant state of anxiety about money, identity, and pressure.And...
What “New-Age Spirituality” Never Taught Me About Power
I'm not sure how deep into the spiritual self-development world you've gotten into. I definitely consider myself a person who practices spirituality. Which now, just means to me, raising my level of awareness and expanding my consciousness. But there was a time I...
The Days I’ve Wanted to Quit
What it Taught Me About Confidence, Success, and Showing Up For Myself Yesterday, we spoke more about confidence in the dating world. Today, I want to talk to you about confidence when it comes to your business or career.You might be satisfied with your current job...
Stop Taking Rejection Personally: Here’s Why
For a long time, I took rejection from women way too personally. It wasn’t just about getting turned down — It fed right into a much deeper story I carried for years: That I wasn’t the kind of man who could experience real romantic love, connection, or mutual...
🧘♂️ Monk Mode: Escape or Evolution?
I've noticed how "mode mode" is such a common trend in the personal development space.➜ "Disappear for 12 months, get rich and jacked."➜ "Don't tell anyone your dreams, work, and live in silence."➜ "Spend all your time alone with no entertaining distractions and...
Too Aware for My Own Good
As I've been settling back in Massachusetts for a few weeks and making more plans with some of my best friends while re-expanding my social network out here, I have been reflecting a lot.I've been reflecting on how much has changed in how I relate to people. How I...
Friendships, Dating, Business
Are You Thriving or Just Surviving? Let's be real... Most people don’t choose the quality of relationships they’re in — they fall into them out of habit, fear, or comfort. Unconsciously choosing their friendships, girlfriends, and people...
🔥THE MASCULINE FIRE RESET PROTOCOL🔥
(aka: how to stop being a drained/low energy cuck and start acting like a man who’s here to win again)Feeling drained, unmotivated, or like your edge has dulled? You're not broken. You're just disconnected from your fire. The kind of fire that makes you wake up...
Reclaiming the Sacred Prick:
Why Edginess Is a Spiritual Gift You know what we don’t need more of? Another spiritualized doormat. You know what we do need? More men who are edgy, blunt, bold—and deeply loving. The sacred prick is the man who doesn’t say the “right” thing. He says...
Why the ‘Wounded Masculine’ Narrative Is Getting Old
Let’s get this out of the way: Yes, wounded masculine energy is real. Yes, we all carry shadows, unresolved rage, emotional avoidance, hypercontrol patterns. But at some point, the phrase “wounded masculine” stopped being a tool for awareness and became a weapon...
“Love & Light” Almost Killed my Edge
(But I took it back) Back in 2021, I first got into learning spirituality and subconscious reprogramming.My first level of awakening felt practical, grounded, and exciting. I first learned about healing and shaping my reality from bridging the gap between cognitive...
Did you “Ghibli” it?
What does AI mean for Human Connection? If you are active on social media, in particular X, you would have seen the complete takeover of Ghibli-themed images post GPT 4o launch. It was absolutely everywhere on 𝕏 in particular, and even though I was travelling...
The Arrival
The New Map Is Here I’ve arrived back in Massachusetts. Not just physically, but in identity. I can feel the shift. And now I’m more than ready to show you how to do the same. The last few years have taught me this: Your entire life is a reflection of your...
The Departure
Leaving The Old Map Behind This past week, I loaded my life into boxes and have now hit the road. I'm on the road as this email gets sent out, travelling for five days. Arizona → Massachusetts.I am returning to my roots. But why? I am leaving with Arizona with...
The Reprogrammed Man
Subconscious Mastery for Confidence, Relationships, and Business Success As my launch comes up (details soon if you haven't been watching closely...) I was taking a moment to reflect on my four-year journey.Thinking back on times I could barely walk into...
Why You Struggle to Make Money (And How to Fix It)
Most men think their lack of money is a strategy problem. They convince themselves: ❌ “I need a better offer.”❌ “I just need to work harder.”❌ “Maybe it’s the economy.” But in reality? Your biggest money problem is your mindset. You can have the best...
The Dark Side of Self-Improvement:
When Growth Becomes an Addiction You read another book. Watched another podcast. Took another course. And you still don’t feel ‘there’ yet. The crazy part? The more you ‘improve’ yourself, the more you feel like you’re never enough. You become more out of...
How Drew Broke Free and Collected $70K in a Week
It's all in the subconscious. People still think that their struggles and problems are external. They believe the reason they’re stuck is because of circumstances outside their control. The classic money, opportunity & luck. But in reality, it’s not about the...
How To Love Without Being Needy
I know what it's like to feel needy in relationships because I used to be that guy. I would over-text women and even hit them up more when they wouldn’t reply. I’d feel upset and discouraged when a woman ended things. I’d get down on myself when a girl didn’t text...
Why I am leaving Phoenix and moving back to Boston in a couple of weeks.
Two weeks ago, I had a powerful ego death moment.It was a calling from a higher power—a deep, almost spiritual realization that everything I came to Phoenix, Arizona to learn, I had already within myself. This shift has brought me a newfound clarity about my vision...
Take back control of your mind.
How to reprogram your subconscious. That damn brain, eh You keep telling it we need to change, but your thoughts are running the show. Your subconscious mind has control over your life. But why? If our thoughts dictate our emotions. Our emotions dictate our...
A Client Case Study: How Noah Reclaimed His Confidence (And How You Can Too)
Noah had tried everything. He had listened to advice, followed all the “right” steps, and yet nothing was working. He still felt stuck. Uncertain. Hesitant to put himself out there. That changed when he joined my coaching program. Because this time, he wasn’t just...
A Client Case Study: How Steven Changed His Life By Changing His Thoughts
Most men don’t realize this The life you’re living right now: your relationships, your career, your confidence, is all a direct reflection of your thoughts. And if those thoughts aren’t serving you? You have the power to reprogram them. Steven is proof of that....
From Public Shame to Personal Power: How I Reclaimed My Confidence with Women
From false accusations to fearlessly flirting—how I rebuilt myself from the ground up. Ten years ago, my entire world collapsed. I was falsely accused of rape, arrested, and thrown into jail the weekend before Thanksgiving in 2014. I had never been in a...
Why You Lose Your Personality As You Get Older
Ever felt like you're slowing losing or have already lost vibrant, quirky self, and energetic self in social situations? You used to have "it," and now you don't. Like you're morphing into a background character of your own life story? I want to dive into this with...
Overcome Your Anxious Attachment and Become Free
I know you have been there before, and I have a bunch. You meet a woman. She blows your entire world. And then the bullshit begins. Not the bullshit between you and her. But the bullshit between you and yourself. You check your phone constantly for when she is...
Your Brain Is Lying To You
The Art Of Reprogramming Your Mind I want to reinforce the message of the last newsletter. Because it is that important. Your mind is constantly feeding you stories about who you are, what you’re capable of, and what’s possible for you. But the problem...
The Belief Loop
Most people still don’t realize how much their beliefs dictate their reality. They think they’re making conscious choices, but in reality, their mind is running on a script that was written years ago. A script built by childhood experiences, past failures, and...
Hustle Culture: The Dark Side
Let me bring you back to the light Are you grinding? Are you putting every waking minute into building your dream life? Are you only sleeping 2 hours to get ahead of your competition? Alright... That's not me, but it sounds a lot like what half these...
Can you really “have it all”?
Why trying to have everything leave you with nothing We see it everywhere nowadays through social media. Everyone has the perfect life. The career they always wanted, the dream relationship, freedom to travel, demigod like aesthetics. They seem...
How to rewire your brain to work for you.
Breaking down the Motivational Triad Humans are creatures of habit. Your brain is wired to operate from habit so it can preserve energy. If you have ever struggled with bad habits like consuming excessive junk food, drinking too much alcohol, smoking 20 a day, or...
How Alan increased his Wealth & Ability to Connect with Women
CASE STUDY: ALAN MEYER I worked with Alan for six months. Before he invested in coaching he was struggling to create the confidence to: • Cultivate more wealth for his copywriting service• Create deeper and more intimate connections with women Wealth...
Learn from my f*ck ups…
Yes, I make mistakes. I always invest in mentors who are where I want to be at so many different levels:• Coaches who are masters in spiritual guidance• Coaches who specialize in relationships• Coaches who are amazing at building businesses and systems• Coaches who...
My Constant Battle With Burnout
Have you ever hit a point where all the things you once loved—your goals, your passions—felt like a heavyweight? Something that used to be your source of joy has now become your source of resentment. I’ve been there. I've been there so many times. The trial and...
Are you Hustling… or Hiding?
The Fine Line Between Ambition and Avoidance We live in a world where hustle is celebrated. Everyone’s grinding, building, chasing the next big thing. But I've noticed something in my years of coaching. This isn't always the case. Some of my students have buried...
The Investment That Pays Forever
The ROI You Can’t See (But Can’t Afford to Ignore) In the past couple of days, I've been recording a ton of module content ready for Divine Alchemy. We are ready for launch soon. And I'm more excited than ever. Hurdles have come, and I've tripped,...
Why losing is good.
Think about it. Back to the last time you "lost"? Not a minor inconvenience. We've all had the awkward situation with no toilet roll and had to calculate our next move. A real loss. A relationship that ended unexpectedly.A business deal that fell apart.A dream...
Unlocking Success in Life and Business
Build Your Inner Foundation, Watch the World Follow I’ve got a question for you: What’s the one thing that touches every area of your life: relationships, business, even your health? Confidence. If you've been a long-time reader, I'm sure you know this by now as I...
Why Women Respect Men Who Know Their Worth
We all want respect. Not the kind you demand from others. Not the kind you manipulate your way into receiving. But the kind that flows naturally because of who you are. The kind that women notice without you saying a word. So many people live a life...
Attraction Isn’t What You Think It Is
Confidence is the Key I'm so tired of it. The bullshit online you see about attraction and women. You are being lied to, over and over again. I'm fighting for you, fighting for the truth. Stop memorizing lines, following scripts, and being a douchebag. ...
The only fight that matters.
You vs. You Every day, there’s a war happening inside you. It’s not against your boss.It's not against your friends.It's not even against the world. It's inside you. It’s you vs. you. One side whispers comfort, safety, and risk avoidance. The...
Life isn’t easy.
People complain of hardship. I see it every day. The victim mentality is adopted by society. 0 accountability. They play the blame game. It's always someone else's fault. It's never their own. Whining and whining feeling like they will keep moving forward because...
You need brutal self-confidence.
Hello there, Do you think of yourself as shy? You need to stop labeling yourself as shy. You need brutal self-confidence. Throughout my childhood, teenage years, and a big chunk of my 20s; I was filled with insecurity. Long story short: • I was...
Case Study: Taylin Simmonds
Today, I want to talk about how I helped a past client of mine Taylin Simmonds become more confident and stepped into his authentic masculine power. Areas of exponential growth for Taylin included: Business Leadership skills Romantic relationship Taylin reached out...
The Secret of Great Leaders
Why The Best Leaders Never Stop Growing Whether you're attempting to grow a business, build a relationship, start you self-mastery journey; a skill you will come across is leadership. If you can't lead, you will struggle to be successful. The best leaders...
What’s really holding you back?
We've all got insecurities. I don't care how rich, famous, or in shape you are. Insecurities. Everyone has them. It's that little voice in your head. Whispering. Bringing you down. “Don’t try that, you will fail.” “Don’t approach her, you are not good enough.” “Why...
Rejection is fuel for your resilience
Rejection. Perhaps a small reaction happens to that word. Maybe a punch to the gut, or a small wince causing the head to rotate slightly left. Being told “no". Whether it’s your career, relationships, personal goals; rejection can make you question everything....
Growth starts when the comfort ends.
Continuing from our last topic about confidence, achievements & failure. I think it's a good moment in time to have an honest conversation about comfort zones. We all know that growth happens outside of them - so why do we keep avoiding it? And the answer is...
The Confidence Myth
You’ve been told a lie. Most people think confidence is something you earn by achieving big milestones. Landing the promotion, making a lot of money, impressing others in social situations. You know, hitting the big time in something. A "completion" of a social...
Confidence = Financial Success
I feel fired up. Just like bitcoin is pumping, I am too. Life is good, life is blessed. So let's attract some financial success. And yes, it's all about confidence my friends. Of course, when I first started my journey to self-mastery and levelling up, the last...
I make mistakes.
Today, we are going back in time. A few years ago, before I even started coaching, I made what felt like one of the biggest mistakes of my life. It certainly felt like that at the time. But as it turned out, it was a pivot to put me on the path where I am today....
The Self Improvement Hamster Wheel
We're inundated with it these days. We are told life is so easy to get ahead because of how people lack discipline and ambition. All these self improvement tricks. Every guru has a new hack. But this is starting to cause a major problem. People now think reading...
Have you had a terrible time on dating apps?
Good morning. Today, we're going to talk about dating apps. Ahhhhhh. Good old dating apps. Tinder, Hinge, Bumble. There's even one called "Plenty of Fish", but let's be honest, your still coming up dry, and sailing home empty handed. I've spoken for awhile about...
Finding The Balance
Good morning. Let's continue from a recent blog, where we dissected why one method for everyone doesn't work to gain true confidence and success. We know the self-improvement world is full of extreme advice. You’re either told to be an emotionless “alpha” who’s all...
You Can’t Live Without Community
I know some of you may class yourself as introverts. And while there is nothing particularly wrong with that, I always say be very careful with labels… Don't put yourself in a box. But, even if you prefer your me time over social events (hey, even I do too...
Right vs Left
At the time I am writing this email, the election is three days away. (You are probably reading this the day before the election) Now, I'm not going to sit here and tell you it is a complete waste of time. It isn't. But if you have been scrolling Twitter (X), or...
“One True Way” – Internet Guru
Good morning. I bet you're sick of it. I know I am. While scrolling through social media, you’ve probably came across the “one true way” that every internet guru tries to tell you is the path to confidence and success. This is a load of bullsh*t. You know those IG...
