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🔥THE MASCULINE FIRE RESET PROTOCOL🔥
(aka: how to stop being a drained/low energy cuck and start acting like a man who’s here to win again)Feeling drained, unmotivated, or like your edge has dulled? You're not broken. You're just disconnected from your fire. The kind of fire that makes you wake up...
Reclaiming the Sacred Prick:
Why Edginess Is a Spiritual Gift You know what we don’t need more of? Another spiritualized doormat. You know what we do need? More men who are edgy, blunt, bold—and deeply loving. The sacred prick is the man who doesn’t say the “right” thing. He says...
Why the ‘Wounded Masculine’ Narrative Is Getting Old
Let’s get this out of the way: Yes, wounded masculine energy is real. Yes, we all carry shadows, unresolved rage, emotional avoidance, hypercontrol patterns. But at some point, the phrase “wounded masculine” stopped being a tool for awareness and became a weapon...
“Love & Light” Almost Killed my Edge
(But I took it back) Back in 2021, I first got into learning spirituality and subconscious reprogramming.My first level of awakening felt practical, grounded, and exciting. I first learned about healing and shaping my reality from bridging the gap between cognitive...
Did you “Ghibli” it?
What does AI mean for Human Connection? If you are active on social media, in particular X, you would have seen the complete takeover of Ghibli-themed images post GPT 4o launch. It was absolutely everywhere on 𝕏 in particular, and even though I was travelling...
The Arrival
The New Map Is Here I’ve arrived back in Massachusetts. Not just physically, but in identity. I can feel the shift. And now I’m more than ready to show you how to do the same. The last few years have taught me this: Your entire life is a reflection of your...
The Departure
Leaving The Old Map Behind This past week, I loaded my life into boxes and have now hit the road. I'm on the road as this email gets sent out, travelling for five days. Arizona → Massachusetts.I am returning to my roots. But why? I am leaving with Arizona with...
The Reprogrammed Man
Subconscious Mastery for Confidence, Relationships, and Business Success As my launch comes up (details soon if you haven't been watching closely...) I was taking a moment to reflect on my four-year journey.Thinking back on times I could barely walk into...
Why You Struggle to Make Money (And How to Fix It)
Most men think their lack of money is a strategy problem. They convince themselves: ❌ “I need a better offer.”❌ “I just need to work harder.”❌ “Maybe it’s the economy.” But in reality? Your biggest money problem is your mindset. You can have the best...
The Dark Side of Self-Improvement:
When Growth Becomes an Addiction You read another book. Watched another podcast. Took another course. And you still don’t feel ‘there’ yet. The crazy part? The more you ‘improve’ yourself, the more you feel like you’re never enough. You become more out of...
How Drew Broke Free and Collected $70K in a Week
It's all in the subconscious. People still think that their struggles and problems are external. They believe the reason they’re stuck is because of circumstances outside their control. The classic money, opportunity & luck. But in reality, it’s not about the...
How To Love Without Being Needy
I know what it's like to feel needy in relationships because I used to be that guy. I would over-text women and even hit them up more when they wouldn’t reply. I’d feel upset and discouraged when a woman ended things. I’d get down on myself when a girl didn’t text...
Why I am leaving Phoenix and moving back to Boston in a couple of weeks.
Two weeks ago, I had a powerful ego death moment.It was a calling from a higher power—a deep, almost spiritual realization that everything I came to Phoenix, Arizona to learn, I had already within myself. This shift has brought me a newfound clarity about my vision...
Take back control of your mind.
How to reprogram your subconscious. That damn brain, eh You keep telling it we need to change, but your thoughts are running the show. Your subconscious mind has control over your life. But why? If our thoughts dictate our emotions. Our emotions dictate our...
A Client Case Study: How Noah Reclaimed His Confidence (And How You Can Too)
Noah had tried everything. He had listened to advice, followed all the “right” steps, and yet nothing was working. He still felt stuck. Uncertain. Hesitant to put himself out there. That changed when he joined my coaching program. Because this time, he wasn’t just...
A Client Case Study: How Steven Changed His Life By Changing His Thoughts
Most men don’t realize this The life you’re living right now: your relationships, your career, your confidence, is all a direct reflection of your thoughts. And if those thoughts aren’t serving you? You have the power to reprogram them. Steven is proof of that....
From Public Shame to Personal Power: How I Reclaimed My Confidence with Women
From false accusations to fearlessly flirting—how I rebuilt myself from the ground up. Ten years ago, my entire world collapsed. I was falsely accused of rape, arrested, and thrown into jail the weekend before Thanksgiving in 2014. I had never been in a...
Why You Lose Your Personality As You Get Older
Ever felt like you're slowing losing or have already lost vibrant, quirky self, and energetic self in social situations? You used to have "it," and now you don't. Like you're morphing into a background character of your own life story? I want to dive into this with...
Overcome Your Anxious Attachment and Become Free
I know you have been there before, and I have a bunch. You meet a woman. She blows your entire world. And then the bullshit begins. Not the bullshit between you and her. But the bullshit between you and yourself. You check your phone constantly for when she is...
Your Brain Is Lying To You
The Art Of Reprogramming Your Mind I want to reinforce the message of the last newsletter. Because it is that important. Your mind is constantly feeding you stories about who you are, what you’re capable of, and what’s possible for you. But the problem...
The Belief Loop
Most people still don’t realize how much their beliefs dictate their reality. They think they’re making conscious choices, but in reality, their mind is running on a script that was written years ago. A script built by childhood experiences, past failures, and...
Hustle Culture: The Dark Side
Let me bring you back to the light Are you grinding? Are you putting every waking minute into building your dream life? Are you only sleeping 2 hours to get ahead of your competition? Alright... That's not me, but it sounds a lot like what half these...
Can you really “have it all”?
Why trying to have everything leave you with nothing We see it everywhere nowadays through social media. Everyone has the perfect life. The career they always wanted, the dream relationship, freedom to travel, demigod like aesthetics. They seem...
How to rewire your brain to work for you.
Breaking down the Motivational Triad Humans are creatures of habit. Your brain is wired to operate from habit so it can preserve energy. If you have ever struggled with bad habits like consuming excessive junk food, drinking too much alcohol, smoking 20 a day, or...
How Alan increased his Wealth & Ability to Connect with Women
CASE STUDY: ALAN MEYER I worked with Alan for six months. Before he invested in coaching he was struggling to create the confidence to: • Cultivate more wealth for his copywriting service• Create deeper and more intimate connections with women Wealth...
Learn from my f*ck ups…
Yes, I make mistakes. I always invest in mentors who are where I want to be at so many different levels:• Coaches who are masters in spiritual guidance• Coaches who specialize in relationships• Coaches who are amazing at building businesses and systems• Coaches who...
My Constant Battle With Burnout
Have you ever hit a point where all the things you once loved—your goals, your passions—felt like a heavyweight? Something that used to be your source of joy has now become your source of resentment. I’ve been there. I've been there so many times. The trial and...
Are you Hustling… or Hiding?
The Fine Line Between Ambition and Avoidance We live in a world where hustle is celebrated. Everyone’s grinding, building, chasing the next big thing. But I've noticed something in my years of coaching. This isn't always the case. Some of my students have buried...
The Investment That Pays Forever
The ROI You Can’t See (But Can’t Afford to Ignore) In the past couple of days, I've been recording a ton of module content ready for Divine Alchemy. We are ready for launch soon. And I'm more excited than ever. Hurdles have come, and I've tripped,...
Why losing is good.
Think about it. Back to the last time you "lost"? Not a minor inconvenience. We've all had the awkward situation with no toilet roll and had to calculate our next move. A real loss. A relationship that ended unexpectedly.A business deal that fell apart.A dream...
Unlocking Success in Life and Business
Build Your Inner Foundation, Watch the World Follow I’ve got a question for you: What’s the one thing that touches every area of your life: relationships, business, even your health? Confidence. If you've been a long-time reader, I'm sure you know this by now as I...
Why Women Respect Men Who Know Their Worth
We all want respect. Not the kind you demand from others. Not the kind you manipulate your way into receiving. But the kind that flows naturally because of who you are. The kind that women notice without you saying a word. So many people live a life...
Attraction Isn’t What You Think It Is
Confidence is the Key I'm so tired of it. The bullshit online you see about attraction and women. You are being lied to, over and over again. I'm fighting for you, fighting for the truth. Stop memorizing lines, following scripts, and being a douchebag. ...
The only fight that matters.
You vs. You Every day, there’s a war happening inside you. It’s not against your boss.It's not against your friends.It's not even against the world. It's inside you. It’s you vs. you. One side whispers comfort, safety, and risk avoidance. The...
Life isn’t easy.
People complain of hardship. I see it every day. The victim mentality is adopted by society. 0 accountability. They play the blame game. It's always someone else's fault. It's never their own. Whining and whining feeling like they will keep moving forward because...
You need brutal self-confidence.
Hello there, Do you think of yourself as shy? You need to stop labeling yourself as shy. You need brutal self-confidence. Throughout my childhood, teenage years, and a big chunk of my 20s; I was filled with insecurity. Long story short: • I was...
Case Study: Taylin Simmonds
Today, I want to talk about how I helped a past client of mine Taylin Simmonds become more confident and stepped into his authentic masculine power. Areas of exponential growth for Taylin included: Business Leadership skills Romantic relationship Taylin reached out...
The Secret of Great Leaders
Why The Best Leaders Never Stop Growing Whether you're attempting to grow a business, build a relationship, start you self-mastery journey; a skill you will come across is leadership. If you can't lead, you will struggle to be successful. The best leaders...
What’s really holding you back?
We've all got insecurities. I don't care how rich, famous, or in shape you are. Insecurities. Everyone has them. It's that little voice in your head. Whispering. Bringing you down. “Don’t try that, you will fail.” “Don’t approach her, you are not good enough.” “Why...
Rejection is fuel for your resilience
Rejection. Perhaps a small reaction happens to that word. Maybe a punch to the gut, or a small wince causing the head to rotate slightly left. Being told “no". Whether it’s your career, relationships, personal goals; rejection can make you question everything....
Growth starts when the comfort ends.
Continuing from our last topic about confidence, achievements & failure. I think it's a good moment in time to have an honest conversation about comfort zones. We all know that growth happens outside of them - so why do we keep avoiding it? And the answer is...
The Confidence Myth
You’ve been told a lie. Most people think confidence is something you earn by achieving big milestones. Landing the promotion, making a lot of money, impressing others in social situations. You know, hitting the big time in something. A "completion" of a social...
Confidence = Financial Success
I feel fired up. Just like bitcoin is pumping, I am too. Life is good, life is blessed. So let's attract some financial success. And yes, it's all about confidence my friends. Of course, when I first started my journey to self-mastery and levelling up, the last...
I make mistakes.
Today, we are going back in time. A few years ago, before I even started coaching, I made what felt like one of the biggest mistakes of my life. It certainly felt like that at the time. But as it turned out, it was a pivot to put me on the path where I am today....
The Self Improvement Hamster Wheel
We're inundated with it these days. We are told life is so easy to get ahead because of how people lack discipline and ambition. All these self improvement tricks. Every guru has a new hack. But this is starting to cause a major problem. People now think reading...
Have you had a terrible time on dating apps?
Good morning. Today, we're going to talk about dating apps. Ahhhhhh. Good old dating apps. Tinder, Hinge, Bumble. There's even one called "Plenty of Fish", but let's be honest, your still coming up dry, and sailing home empty handed. I've spoken for awhile about...
Finding The Balance
Good morning. Let's continue from a recent blog, where we dissected why one method for everyone doesn't work to gain true confidence and success. We know the self-improvement world is full of extreme advice. You’re either told to be an emotionless “alpha” who’s all...
You Can’t Live Without Community
I know some of you may class yourself as introverts. And while there is nothing particularly wrong with that, I always say be very careful with labels… Don't put yourself in a box. But, even if you prefer your me time over social events (hey, even I do too...
Right vs Left
At the time I am writing this email, the election is three days away. (You are probably reading this the day before the election) Now, I'm not going to sit here and tell you it is a complete waste of time. It isn't. But if you have been scrolling Twitter (X), or...
“One True Way” – Internet Guru
Good morning. I bet you're sick of it. I know I am. While scrolling through social media, you’ve probably came across the “one true way” that every internet guru tries to tell you is the path to confidence and success. This is a load of bullsh*t. You know those IG...
From Fear to Freedom
A Testimonial Story Today, we return to another testimonial from a recent client of mine, Dino Avdic.This is a story of breaking down barriers and stepping into a life without limits. When Dino first came to me, he was struggling with confidence in two crucial...
Bradley’s Story: From Self-Doubt to Total Alignment
I wanted to share a powerful story from a recent client of mine, Bradley Hession. If you’ve ever felt like certain challenges keep repeating in your life or business, his experience might resonate. And I'd just like to say, after working with me, Bradley is now...
Speak Your Truth. Be Vulnerable.
Vulnerability (open to speaking my truth) has allowed me to create deeper relationships with the people in my life. I am able to be authentic and honest around my friends, family, followers, students, women and loved ones. The feeling feels like freedom in who I...
A Triad of Confidence
I wanted to revisit an old client of mine. Through certain DMs and conversations recently, I feel as though this message would be beneficial for a lot of people I have spoken too from situations I've been hearing about. So here we are: I worked with Alan on...
How To Thrive In Social Environments
I want to remind you how important self-acceptance is for your own growth. I know you may want the social life, the women, the money, and to achieve things in your life to feel good about yourself.But the blunt truth is this:You must accept who you already are...
I Spilt Water On A Woman At An EDM Show
I had an interesting incident at an EDM show a while back. I was reflecting on it this week and I wanted to share it to you. I went out with a new group of friends I made. We're all dancing, enjoying ourselves when I dropped my soda water on the dance floor. Some...
Turning Your Passion Into Profit
I once had a friend - let’s call him Jason, who was completely obsessed with photography. Bro would see an insect, and whip out his camera. A rural building. Camera. If I met up with him, he had a camera. He’d spend weekends out in nature, capturing shots that...
The Social Confidence Strategy
Today, we're going back in time. Four years ago, back when I lived in Massachusetts, I got invited to this networking event. New to the coaching game, and looking to make connections, I was excited. Everyone was there to meet new people, exchange ideas, make...
Coaching Natt On Kick Starting Her Business
CASE STUDY: NATT ARAM When Natt first approached me, she was focused on what most entrepreneurs think they need:• How to get clients• Building funnels• Managing the day-to-day operationsLike so many who are starting out in the game, she wanted the external tools;...
How To Hit Your Goals
Let me ask you this: How many times have you set a goal, started strong, but somewhere along the way, life happened, and before you knew it, that goal was out of sight? In fact, it's a distant memory. Other priorities came into place, and despite the hunger you had...
Beat Procrastination
Procrastination can really take a chip away of your own self-confidence. I know on days where I've avoided doing what's good for me, whether it be working out, nutrition, business tasks, making new friends, or talking to attractive women - I've noticed I end up...
Shift Rejection Into Incompatibility
A lot of dating advice for men (and women) nowadays will give a list of tactics, strategies, scripts, or tell you to "play it cool" by pulling back when a woman shows low interest in you. Or the classic: "She's just not into you bro, move on." Although there is...
How To Change Your Thoughts To Become Confident
There is one major step that will recreate your reality in a way that always works in your favor and exposes your true confident self. Something that can only be focused on in the present moment, and that is your thoughts. Cognitive mastery, will not be mastered...
Four Ways To Practice Living In The Present Moment
People are usually ruminating about the past or concerned about the future. Not only is this tiring for yourself, but it also cultivates unnecessary emotions and thoughts that do not serve you and creates noise in your head that will distract you from living in the present moment. I used to struggle at living in the now, especially after graduating college and taking my career and independence seriously, sometimes a bit too seriously where I would create unnecessary emotional pain for myself. Along with that, my ADHD would have me hyper focused on these thoughts which created very strong emotions and feelings that would distract me from being my best self on stream, at work, or with friends. In this blog I am going to share with you all four practices I have been using to enter the present moment which has overall helped me TREMENDOUSLY over the course of the past few months with my mental health, life, and happiness.
How to Unapologetically Be Yourself
There are many reasons why people grow in fear of unapologetically being themselves. Some of these examples may apply to you: Parent’s warned you that you need to “assimilate” to be accepted You were made fun of because you were “different” Your boss refused to let...
Stop Putting People on a F*cking Pedestal
The Twitch community, like any other online community or industry is unique in its own way. The way we talk to each other with our slang, phrases, inside jokes, and having a level of comfort with one another is fucking amazing. I don’t have any other circle of...
The Process Of Manifesting Your New Year Goals
Coming up with goals for the New Year can be wicked overwhelming (I apologize ahead of time for the Masshole slang). It can be very easy to list out some resolutions for the upcoming year that are vague and then you find yourself stuck the following year. Nothing...
