Sheshn Life Coaching

Helping Overcome Social Anxiety.

About Shawn

Hello! My name is Shawn “Sheshn” Heshmatpour. I’m not only a goofball who always sees the fun in life, I am also the first life coach in the industry to have my hairy arms mistaken as tattoo sleeves!

Intro Video

Discover your true authentic self
and live your life


Do You...

Become anxious when going to social gatherings, events, and dates?


What if...

You felt close to 

NO Anxiety

MORE Liberated



Hi, I'm Shawn

I’m here to help you overcome social anxiety so you can discover and become your most confident self.


Become Your Own Superhero!

Think, feel, and LIVE in indomitable self confidence.

Ready To Grow With Me?

Do you feel sick of being too nervous to 

express yourself in social circles? Click below for your solution.

Oh God Yes

About Shawn

At a young age I had extreme social anxiety and very little self confidence. However, the early negative conditioning and trauma could not stop my persistence in personal growth!

From being shy and awkward to outgoing and fearless at social gatherings, dates, and in my own personal decision making; I now guide people one-on-one to discover who they are with no limits.


MY MISSION IS TO help those who suffer with social anxiety, in groups and within personal relationships, by guiding them towards their true authentic self. 


To guide others to find inner peace and TRUE happiness by understanding who they are. The first step to making the world better is to start by bettering ourselves.


"Stop looking for what the world needs and start looking for what makes you feel alive, because what the world needs are more people who feel alive."
-Somebody's name I completely forget.

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"Shawn has been coaching me for 10 weeks now and he has taught me the key concepts of cognitive mastery and emotional ownership - I had a problem with understanding my feelings and thoughts, but by using his Model of Alignment, that changed. I now use the model of alignment for everything."

Sebastian Ravaal Client

"Shawn’s counseling exceeded my expectations, he helped me become more aware of my surroundings, my thoughts, my emotions. By becoming aware of these things, he was able to help me interpret the outcome of my actions. I learned very quickly how powerful our mind is. He made me feel comfortable and his positive energy it’s contagious."

Emely German Client

"I had just gone through one of the toughest breakups and was in a complete breakdown. I put myself in a dark victimized place and with Shawn’s coaching I was able to re-frame why I was in that mindset as well as understanding why I defaulted to that behavior. Since working with Shawn, I have been able to reflect and re-condition some of the most deep rooted trauma that I didn’t even know existed."

Allen Kaatherman Client

"Before coming to Shawn, I was stuck in my self-development journey. I wasn’t sure what to do next, so I decided to look for events online and found a free workshop Shawn was hosting. I liked it so much that I enrolled in a 12 week 1-1 coaching class with him. Now that it’s over, I’m more self-aware and confident in myself. I’m also a lot better at sitting with any uncomfortable feelings that arise in my body. I couldn’t be happier with my experience."

Sydney Jackson Designation


    Frequently Asked Questions

    What is a Life Coach?

    A life coach is a person who counsels and encourages clients on matters having to do with careers or personal challenges.

    Why Hire a Life Coach?

    Hiring a life coach will speed up the process of the problem you are trying to solve. As people, we need mentors and guides. Learning on your own through books, podcasts, and videos can certainly improve your knowledge but a coach can show you how to apply it and feel it too. My students are able to discover themselves in a matter of a few months rather than treading water for many years.

    What is the Difference Between Coaching and Therapy.

    A lot of modern day therapy goes off the basis that there is something wrong with you, and that you need to be fixed. The biggest problem with therapy right now is that it focuses too much on making meaning of your past. This only does so much if you want to see a massive transformation. With my style of coaching, I go into it knowing that there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I help you understand yourself, and most importantly listen to yourself too. Your past experiences can be useful, but we focus on your future and help you live it in the now.

    How Are You Different Than Other Coaches?

    I don't tell you what to do. I don't tell you to do things that don't resonate with you. I would just be conditioning you into somebody you're not if I did that. I guide you to find yourself and I teach you on how to trust yourself in anything you want to do. I coach you so you can learn who you are at a DEEP LEVEL and then guide you to apply that knowledge in the real world.

    Is Your Program a Risk?

    Not at all. I am not even being biased either. Here is why. It is a life time transformation. Three months of 1:1 Coaching with me is only a little under $3,000. Think about how much money you spend per month on drinks, going out to eat, technology, video games, toys, weed, and other distractions. This is a lifetime investment that guarantees becoming confident for life. In fact, my methodology is used for career decisions as well, which will make you more money. It isn't about the money though. It is about the personal freedom, feeling it, and living it too. This is a life transformation. $3,000 for three months with me to change your life forever? That's a steal.
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