Most men don’t realize this
The life you’re living right now: your relationships, your career, your confidence, is all a direct reflection of your thoughts.
And if those thoughts aren’t serving you?
You have the power to reprogram them.
Steven is proof of that.
Meet Steven.
He joined my 14-week dating and social confidence bootcamp this past fall. When he started, he was struggling.
Navigating the pain of a recent breakup, feeling lost in his identity, unsure of his next steps in life.
Like most men, he was carrying years of unconscious programming—beliefs and patterns that were keeping him stuck.
But through our work together, he was able to:
✅ Heal from his past relationship and move forward with confidence
✅ Rediscover who he is as a man—his values, his purpose, his power
✅ Find career opportunities that bring him joy
✅ Step back into the dating world, this time as the best version of himself
But most importantly?
He found inner peace and liberation.
Because once you reprogram the subconscious beliefs keeping you trapped, everything changes.
Or, as Steven put it:
“By CHANGING THE WAY YOU THINK!”
Most people think transformation comes from external success. More money, more women, more status.
But real transformation?
It starts from the inside.
Your thoughts shape your reality.
Your beliefs dictate your actions.
And when you shift the way you think, you unlock a version of yourself you never knew existed.
That’s the foundation of my coaching.
Not quick fixes.
Not surface-level tactics.
Deep, lasting transformation.
And Steven is just getting started.
I’m extremely proud of the work he put in.
If you’re ready to step into the best version of yourself, start where it actually matters:
Your mind.
Much love,
Shawn “Sheshn” Heshmatpour
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