I want to remind you how important self-acceptance is for your own growth. I know you may want the social life, the women, the money, and to achieve things in your life to feel good about yourself. But the blunt truth is this: You must accept who you already are right now. This was a huge theme Danny and I worked on during our time working together. Danny wanted to expose himself to new social environments, a dating life, and to get back into new hobbies. But he felt blocked because he was too in his head. Why? There was parts about himself he was still judging. When we think of self-improvement we think of the usual stuff: ➝ Habits to make us better ➝ Social skills to make us more likeable ➝ Confidence to make ourselves more attractive And look, it’s good to always want to improve. But at a certain point you hit a f*cking wall on the path until you accept yourself for where you’re at. As Danny learned self-acceptance on our calls together (both strengths and weaknesses) he became more open-minded and less judgmental towards himself. In a span of 5 weeks his attitude around social life, dating, and stepping into new environments completely shifted. Danny was also very receptive and not stubborn to the teachings, inner work, and practices. If you want to feel more confident and secure in your own skin… you must humble your ego. The more you can accept the parts of yourself that show up in your mind, the easier it becomes to relax into your being, the less tight you are and the more fluid and at peace you become. I can do it. Danny can do it. YOU can do it. |
Much love, Shawn “Sheshn” Heshmatpour |
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