A lot of men think they need more healing.
They don’t.
They need direction.
They need structure.
They need to stop waiting for some perfect moment where they “feel aligned” and start moving through resistance like a man with a code.
I’m not here to knock the inner work.
You know I’m all about it.
It’s a core part of the teachings in Divine Alchemy.
But masculine healing isn’t just about breathwork and talking about your wounds all day.
It’s about how you show up when you don’t feel like it.
It’s about building structure for your power to flow, not waiting until your emotions give you permission to rise.
Masculine energy is built through repetition, not emotion.
It’s the guy who doesn’t negotiate with his resistance that becomes attractive.
It’s the man who wakes up and executes, even with doubt in his chest, that starts to feel magnetic in the world.
- You want women to respect you?
Show yourself that you respect your word. - You want your business to scale?
Stop outsourcing your focus to how you feel that day. - You want to be taken seriously in a room?
Walk in grounded in your own system, not in search of approval.
Resistance doesn’t mean stop.
It means to contain and move anyway.
Yes, you’re going to feel emotions.
Yes, you’ll want to flinch.
But if you’re always letting your current emotional state dictate your next move… you’re not healing. You’re stalling.
The most dangerous man in the room isn’t the loudest.
It’s the one who can hold fire in his gut and still make the call.
Build a code and live by it.
Most men don’t need more freedom; they need more non-negotiables.
You want to be magnetic in dating?
Have standards that no woman can shake.
You want respect from your social circle?
Be the man who doesn’t fold when pressure hits.
You want real wealth?
Show up to the mission every damn day whether you’re inspired or not.
This is what structure does: it anchors your masculinity.
It’s not “rigid.”
It’s not “too intense.”
It’s real masculine containment.
Masculine healing looks like:
• Emotional tension in your chest, but still showing up like a man with purpose
• Not needing to feel good to take aligned action
• Choosing devotion over dopamine
• Living your truth, not bending for comfort
• Rewiring your nervous system by proving to it: “I do hard things, and I do them daily.”
This is what we train inside Divine Alchemy.
Masculine leadership.
Energetic sovereignty.
A brotherhood of men who are done making excuses and ready to lead in their business, dating life, wealth, and emotional power.
Much love,
Shawn “Sheshn” Heshmatpour
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