There’s a version of you that knows he’s powerful.
But sometimes, life buries that version under layers of fear, guilt, and “not enough.”
That’s where Alan Meyer found himself right when we first met.
Despite being intelligent, self-aware, and deeply heart-centered…
He was hitting internal roadblocks in every area of his life:
Business
Dating
And even the way he saw himself as a man.
He was making money… but not what he knew he was capable of.
He wanted a healthy relationship… but kept losing himself in fear of not being enough.
He knew he had more potential… but didn’t know how to unlock it.
So he reached out and joined my private coaching container.
And what happened next changed his life.
The Root Issue Most Men Overlook
In our first few calls, one thing became crystal clear
Everything he was struggling with came back to a single belief:
“I’m not good enough.”
That belief was dictating:
- How much money he felt safe making
- How deeply he allowed women to love him
- How he processed fear, stress, and disappointment
But here’s what separated Alan from most men:
He didn’t run from it. He got curious about it.
Here’s What We Did Differently (and Why It Worked)
✅ 1. We cleared the subconscious clutter
Alan learned to meet his patterns with curiosity instead of judgment.
He stopped seeing his triggers as problems and started seeing them as invitations to evolve.
✅ 2. He built a new self-concept
We worked together to replace the old “I’m not enough” identity with grounded beliefs rooted in service, leadership, and emotional strength.
He began to lead calls, sales, and romantic moments from a centered masculine frame.
✅ 3. He took practical action toward wealth
Instead of getting in his head, Alan started reaching out to new clients and closing high-ticket copywriting deals.
Once his worth wasn’t attached to the outcome, he started seeing business as a game, and he began winning.
✅ 4. He stepped into healthy love
Alan entered a new romantic relationship during our time together.
Of course, like most relationships, it brought up his insecurities, fear of abandonment, discomfort around emotional intensity, and questioning if he was “too much” or “not enough.”
But every time it happened… we turned it into growth.
We processed it, healed it, reframed it, and rewired it.
Instead of sabotaging it, he held the frame.
Alan’s Words (From His Testimonial):
“Shawn, you’ve helped me declutter my subconscious so I can live each day with peace and power.
I appreciate you, amigo.”
“When you work with Shawn, you can expect to be heard with compassion, answered with honesty and clarity, and pushed to grow into your fullest self from a place of love.”
This isn’t therapy.
It’s not hustle culture.
It’s not spiritual fluff.
This is what real masculine transformation looks like when you blend truth, emotional healing, and practical tools for results.
Much love,
Shawn “Sheshn” Heshmatpour
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