Read Sumit’s Story:
Sumit’s words, not mine, Shawn:
“My identity was extremely attached to performance.
I thought the more I did, the more worthy I was.”
This is how most high-performing men suffer.
They grind.
They produce.
They chase that next milestone – not because they love it,
But because they need it to feel like they matter.
Sumit was already deep in the entrepreneurial game.
Building a business, growing his personal brand, networking, and launching offers. He was doing everything he needed to.
However…
On the outside? Momentum.
On the inside? Pressure.
A constant nagging of anxiety that never shut off, never left.
“There was a constant sense of not doing enough.
Like I wasn’t on track. Like I was falling behind.”
This is what happens when your nervous system is wired for chaos.
Stillness feels like failure.
You can’t rest without guilt.
You can’t win without shame waiting on the other side.
“I was living in my head. Constantly analyzing myself.
Constantly trying to manage and control everything.”
Control is a trauma response.
Overanalyzing is a survival tactic.
You try to manage outcomes so you never have to face the pain of powerlessness again.
But the paradox?
The more control you seek, the less peace you feel.
Sumit didn’t need another productivity hack.
He didn’t need another podcast (please, less podcast consumption) or workflow tweak.
He needed to rewire the foundation of how he lived.
That’s where I stepped in.
This wasn’t just coaching.
It was nervous system regulation.
Emotional repatterning.
Inner masculine restructuring.
We got under his identity.
And that’s when things changed.
“Now I live in peace. I have a regulated nervous system.
I get shit done, but I don’t stress anymore.”
He didn’t lose his edge.
He sharpened that bad boy.
He learned to lead from power, not programming.
“This was one of the best investments I’ve ever made in my life.”
You don’t have to be burning out to make a shift.
But most men wait until the fire is too hot to breathe.
They wait until they’re resenting the business they built,
questioning the identity they curated,
and wondering why success feels so damn heavy.
If you’re done outsourcing your worth to how much you produce…
If you want to scale your life and business from a place of truth and not trauma…
Sumit’s story is proof:
You can run a business and have peace.
You can grow without grinding your soul to dust.
You can stop managing everything and start becoming who you were meant to be.
Sumit brought the willingness.
The result? Freedom.
Much love, Shawn “Sheshn” Heshmatpour |
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