We’re facing a crisis in society that I am sure you can relate to.
Too many men today feel ashamed of who they are.
They suppress their desires.
They feel anxious about their status.
They crumble when challenged.
The truth?
You were born with power.
But if you don’t understand how to use it, it will either destroy you… or leave you stuck in self-doubt.
This email is about reclaiming that power.
1. Virility — Your Untapped Energy
As a young man, you were given a power most men are never taught to respect: virility.
Strength. Energy. Sex drive.
You’ve been told it’s wrong, dirty, or something to hide.
But it’s the exact fuel that drives you to pursue women, build, protect, and create.
Porn and casual hookups waste it.
Shame suppresses it.
But when you direct it toward your goals and relationships with intention, it becomes unstoppable.
2. Status — The Scoreboard of Growth
Status isn’t evil.
It’s not just money or titles. It’s where you stand in health, career, relationships, and life.
Everything has a status (a key measurement).
Without status, you wouldn’t be able to measure where you are with where you want to be.
– Financial status
– Relationship status
– Social status
– Spiritual status
– Health status
– Physique status
– Educational status
Many men either burn out chasing every status game… or they avoid trying at all. Both of these kill your confidence.
The solution: let go of status anxiety.
Pursue growth in the areas that matter to you, not to impress anyone else.
3. Dignity — The Antidote to Shame
If you believe you’re unworthy, rejection will paralyze you.
True dignity means knowing your worth doesn’t come from women, achievements, or anyone else’s opinion.
It’s inherent.
When you let go of shame, you can finally pursue women and success without fear of failure.
Because you know deep down in your being that you are worthy of it, and you will work towards receiving it and becoming a good steward of it once you have it.
4. Frame — The Structure of Your Life
Frame is your order. Your mission. Your hierarchy of priorities.
Maybe it’s health → wealth → relationships.
Or maybe it looks different.
The key is this: once you’ve set it, you don’t break it.
A strong frame means refusing to bend your standards for approval.
It’s what makes women respect you and life trust you.
If you’re struggling with shame, status anxiety, or lack of direction, you’re not broken. You’re simply not holding frame.
Inside Divine Alchemy, I help men reclaim their virility, build real status, let go of shame, and hold an unshakable frame.
Why are these things so important?
Again, without them, you won’t be able to have the woman of your dreams, the dating life you desire, the wealth you know you want, and even the lifestyle you desire as well.
The reason why I am able to have such a successful business today, where I work when I want, lead a brotherhood group, get to do whatever I wish on any day of the week, and have an active dating life along with a social life of a very supportive group of friends is because I know how to use this energy in my favor. I am responsible of myself to do what I need to do to get what I desire, and when I receive it, I am responsible of what it takes to maintain it as well.
Much love,
Shawn “Sheshn” Heshmatpour
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