Most men have no idea how little women care about what they say.
You could talk about deep topics, show your intellect, ask great questions…
But if your energy doesn’t land, she won’t feel anything.
Let me give you a metaphor:
Masculine energy is like a rock.
Feminine energy is like a sheet of glass.
Throw a rock at the glass, and it shatters.
It moves. It reacts.
But throw a roll of toilet paper at that same glass?
Nothing happens. It bounces off. The glass doesn’t move.
This is the difference between a man who penetrates the moment with grounded, embodied energy…
And a man who performs, overthinks, or avoids tension.
She doesn’t surrender to hesitation.
She doesn’t soften for safety-seeking boys.
She softens for the man who holds her energy with his presence.
The man who:
– Locks eyes without needing anything back
– Speaks without spiraling or apologizing
– Makes decisions without doubting himself
– Creates calm in the chaos
– Leads the moment without over-explaining
That’s penetrative presence.
It’s a felt experience.
She’ll never say, “Wow, I love how grounded and emotionally regulated he is.”
But she’ll feel it in her body. And she’ll melt in yours.
You don’t need more tricks.
You don’t need to become a “nicer” guy.
You don’t need to sound smarter.
You need to embody the part of you that already knows:
→ What you want
→ How to lead
→ And how to move energy with your presence, not performance.
Much love,
Shawn “Sheshn” Heshmatpour
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