It’s all in the subconscious.
| People still think that their struggles and problems are external. They believe the reason they’re stuck is because of circumstances outside their control. The classic money, opportunity & luck. But in reality, it’s not about the four-leaf clover, and it’s never external. It’s always been and will be internal. It still baffles me how many people do not speak about this. The vicious cycle… repeating past mistakes, falling back into old patterns. Your mind is winning the fight, and not in a good way. This is exactly where Drew was before working with me: “Before working with Shawn, I was stuck in a cycle of hitting a ceiling—making one step forward only to fall back again—and constantly living in a state of anxiety about money and my confidence in that realm.” How many times have you been here? You set a goal, push hard, start seeing results… then, somehow, you sabotage it. You lose momentum. You hesitate. The self-doubt creeps back in. And then we’re back in the worst spot. The cycle f*cking repeats. What most men don’t realize is that this isn’t just simple bad luck. Our luck isn’t going to swing the other way if we buy 100 lottery tickets because it’s “our time”. It’s subconscious conditioning. Your brain is programmed to stay in the familiar, even if the familiar is struggle… Until it’s rewired, your life will stay the same. “The weekly exercises and calls were game changers. By taking immediate action and seeing quick feedback loops, I started noticing massive shifts within just 2-3 weeks. It wasn’t luck—it was me.” This is what most men don’t get: transformation doesn’t take years. It isn’t a slog. It takes commitment, consistency, and immediate action (almost put a John Wick quote, maybe I should have, eh?). Drew didn’t wait for motivation. He didn’t wait to “feel ready.” He took the frameworks, applied them, and started stacking wins. And when you take action – real, uncomfortable action – you get feedback from reality. That feedback builds confidence. Confidence leads to momentum. Momentum leads to transformation. Most guys stay stuck because they wait until they “believe” in themselves before taking action. But that’s backwards. You don’t get belief first. You get belief by acting first. “One of the biggest breakthroughs was collecting $70K in cash in a week and then landing a role as Partner and Head of Operations with an insane earning potential.” This isn’t just about money (as nice as $70,000 is). It’s about self-worth. When you start operating from a place of internal power instead of scarcity, everything changes. You guessed it… unleash your authentic power. The reason Drew could collect $70K in a week wasn’t because of a secret strategy. He didn’t read 70 quick cash books from your favorite gurus. It was because he removed the subconscious blocks that were keeping him stuck. You’ll never out-earn your self-worth. If deep down you don’t believe you deserve success, you’ll sabotage every opportunity that comes your way. You’ll undercharge. You’ll hesitate. You’ll “forget” to follow up on that deal. Remove the limiting beliefs. Step into abundance. “The most valuable part of working with Shawn was the entire paradigm shift, but even more so, how quickly it happened once I held myself accountable and took action daily.” Look, most men don’t lack the ability to succeed. They lack the mindset and accountability to actually follow through and finish what they started. Drew wasn’t given some magic formula. He was given the right tools, the right mindset shifts, and a system to hold himself accountable. That’s the only difference between men who change and men who stay stuck. In the simple… that is where *true magic* happens. “Shawn’s ability to ask the right questions—again and again—forced me to find my own answers, which made the experience that much more powerful and has made it way more likely that I’ll continue succeeding.” This is why most self-help content doesn’t work. Reading books and listening to podcasts won’t change you. You don’t need more information, PLEASE, YOU HAVE CONSUMED ENOUGH. You need the right questions to break through the mental loops that have been running your life. The most powerful transformations happen when you’re forced to confront the beliefs that have kept you small. And once you see the truth, you can’t unsee it. “If you’re an analytical person like me, your mind can be your worst enemy. Shawn helped me see that sometimes you need to ‘dumb yourself down’ to let your mind work for you, not against you. The impact was undeniable.” If you’re someone who overthinks, overanalyzes, and second-guesses everything – you don’t need more logic (possibly a game of chess…) But what you truly need is less resistance. Most men intellectualize their way out of action. They overthink every decision, try to control every outcome, and end up paralyzed. Confidence isn’t built in the head, it’s built-in action. Drew had to learn how to feel instead of analyze. How to trust himself instead of second-guessing every move. That shift changed everything. |
| Much love, Shawn “Sheshn” Heshmatpour |
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