Let’s get this out of the way: Yes, wounded masculine energy is real.
Yes, we all carry shadows, unresolved rage, emotional avoidance, hypercontrol patterns.
But at some point, the phrase “wounded masculine” stopped being a tool for awareness and became a weapon for shame.
I’ve watched men shut down their strength because they were told it was toxic. I’ve coached clients who started second-guessing their instincts, their clarity, even their directness, because they thought being masculine automatically meant being harmful.
Let me say this clearly: You are not broken just because you are blunt, assertive, logical, sexual, protective, grounded.
These traits aren’t flaws. They’re sacred.
Masculinity doesn’t need to be healed by softness. It needs to be reclaimed through presence.
When I reclaimed my own masculine energy, I stopped asking permission to speak.
I started honoring structure, direction, and drive without apologizing for it. And funny enough—that’s when I actually became more connected, more embodied, and more in love with life.
One of my clients used to avoid direct conversations because he thought it was “controlling.”
Now he leads with clarity, owns his desires, and has created more intimacy in his relationship than ever before.
Why? Because he stopped calling his masculinity a wound.
Healing the masculine isn’t about neutering it.
It’s about remembering that healthy masculinity contains the chaos, builds the structure, leads from devotion, grounds the soul.
If this is the strong presence you want to embody, then let’s have a chat.
It’s time to stop feeling guilty for being a grounded, powerful, imperfect man.
If you’re ready to lead from your edge without burning out your heart.
Then we should talk.
It was when I fully owned my edge I was able to detach from outcomes and effortlessly go after the wealth, the social interactions, and the women I desire.
Imagine being able to influence a social interaction based on setting an intention and becoming an expression of it in a way that adds value to a group of people?
Imagine seeing a beautiful woman at a coffee shop, bar, or social setting and fully owning your expression of your intention to make her smile and have an amazing conversation with her?
Imagine providing value to others in a service you offer that you love so much that your expertise and love for your craft naturally bleed through in your conversations?
2025 is your f*cking year to shine!
Own your edge. Own your power. Own your reality.
Much love,
Shawn “Sheshn” Heshmatpour
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