Two men can do the exact same thing.
Same words. Same moves. Same actions.
But only one of them gets the outcome he desires.
Why?
Because it’s not about what you do, it’s about the story driving it.
One man approaches a woman with grounded confidence.
The other with silent desperation.
One builds a business from a place of personal power.
The other builds to prove he’s finally worth something.
Same action.
Different story.
Completely different results.
The Hidden Reason You Keep Creating Misaligned Results
Most men think their circumstances are the problem.
They think the reason they don’t have what they want is that they:
→ Don’t have enough time
→ Don’t know the right strategy
→ Don’t have the “thing” others do
But here’s the truth:
You’re taking action from the wrong emotional fuel.
And the reason for that?
The story you believe about yourself.
Your Subconscious Story = Your Emotional Fuel
Every action you take is driven by a feeling.
And every feeling is created by a thought, a belief, a story.
The man who takes action from confidence does so because he believes he is worthy.
The man who takes action from anxiety does so because he believes he’s not.
One is aligned.
The other is chasing.
So it doesn’t matter if you’re taking “massive action.”
If the emotional fuel behind it is desperation, neediness, or fear of not being enough…
Your results will match that.
Every. Single. Time.
You Were Taught to Fear Your Power
Here’s what’s even more messed up:
Most of your story isn’t even yours.
You were conditioned to believe that your worth came from results…
That your voice wasn’t powerful unless it got praise…
That your value was based on who accepted you, not who you chose to become.
Society trained you to fear rejection.
To fear failure.
To fear being seen as too much.
But your power isn’t too much.
Your power is exactly what will set you free.
You just have to own it.
Break the Old Story. Rewrite Your Reality.
You’ve been told to chase success, women, money, validation…
But when you do that from a broken story, your actions just confirm the same cycle:
→ “I’m not enough”
→ Take action from that belief
→ Don’t get the result
→ “See? I knew I wasn’t enough.”
This is the loop that keeps men stuck for years.
So what’s the solution?
Interrupt the story.
Change the emotional fuel.
Choose a new thought that drives aligned action.
When you rewire your mind, your energy changes.
When your energy changes, your results follow.
You Have Two Choices
You can keep chasing outcomes while doubting yourself in the process.
Or you can do the work to become the man whose actions are driven by self-respect, self-trust, and self-leadership.
Much love,
Shawn “Sheshn” Heshmatpour
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