I want to share with you a perspective on dating that I’ve noticed all men who have a healthy dating rotation, marriage, or relationship all have in common, which is the backbone of their successes.
Part of dating with confidence is putting yourself out there as if your past traumas never existed.
You’ve got to make the mental and emotional effort to zoom out.
You must live a reality that is not a slave to your past and step into a version of yourself you can create today.
Play out the character who can connect with women like you’ve never been hurt before.
What would that look like?
– Positive vibes.
– Boldly flirtatious.
– Fun to connect with.
Being uncertain and holding back to “feel out her vibe first” automatically puts you in the role of the feminine.
This is not attractive because you are being passive about the energy you want to create, rather than PROACTIVE in the dynamic.
She’ll simply follow along or not, and it’s never personal.
Allow yourself to be the best version of you and let go of the outcome.
Allow yourself to step into new things with a positive attitude.
Allow yourself to flirt boldly as if you’ve never been rejected before.
Take on the belief system of someone who HAS a healthy dating life, a marriage, or a relationship you desire.
The men who already have it are never concerned with how women will see them.
They just put their best foot forward because it is simply the right thing to do.
It feels good to be positive, energetic, bold, and have a healthy mindset.
The right woman will automatically follow your lead.
And don’t you want a woman in your life WHO IS POSITIVE?
Of course you do!
So become the thing you seek that way you attract a likeminded women into your life as well.
If you lead yourself with constant pessimism, negativity, and defensiveness of potential threats, you will only attract women who operate under that same way of thinking.
Lead yourself with good vibes.
And if she isn’t attracted to that… GOOD!
It’ll create room for a woman WHO ALSO WANTS to live a life of optimism, love, and positivity.
I understand it is easier said than done.
That is why I have built the Divine Alchemy Brotherhood.
| Much love, Shawn “Sheshn” Heshmatpour |
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