Now he builds from authentic power.
Joseph’s Story →
The Approval Trap
Joseph wasn’t lost
He was simply tired of chasing something he couldn’t name, identify, or put his finger on.
On paper, he was doing more than fine.
Smart, driven, well-spoken.
But underneath the surface, he was still trying to earn his place in every room he entered.
Socially, Joseph would hold back.
He’d overthink what to say.
He’d act a certain way and change himself to be liked, accepted, and approved of.
Why?
Because Joseph didn’t trust his own presence.
And when you don’t trust yourself, everyone else knows it, too.
The energy transfer is real.
It’s recognized.
This is where we started.
The Emotional Rebuild
This wasn’t about “confidence hacks”.
This was about removing the virus in his subconscious wiring; the belief that his value came from how others responded to him.
We got real about his story.
The childhood dynamics.
The people-pleasing patterns.
The fear of being too much… or not enough.
He stopped bypassing and started feeling.
He stopped performing and started leading.
What came out of that wasn’t some polished version of Joseph.
It was the real one.
Grounded.
Present.
No longer apologizing for existing.
The Joseph who was always there.
From Inner Work to Outer Impact
Once Joseph stopped outsourcing his worth, everything shifted.
He showed up more powerfully in relationships.
No more walking on eggshells. No more shrinking.
He led with truth instead of performance.
But he didn’t stop there.
He took that same inner stability and applied it to his business.
Joseph had been building a business in digital marketing and AI, but now he had a foundation:
- A calm nervous system.
- Clear self-belief.
- Aligned execution.
And when that kind of energy enters business…
Results don’t just improve. They compound.
Why He Chose Divine Alchemy
Joseph didn’t join Divine Alchemy because he was broken.
He joined because he wasn’t willing to plateau.
He saw what happens when you put yourself in a container of men who are doing the work:
Mentally.
Emotionally.
Spiritually.
Financially.
And he wanted to keep evolving.
Not just as a man, but as a creator, leader, and entrepreneur.
That’s the difference between men who try to do it all alone…
…and men who choose to lead from depth.
This Is What Happens When Men Stop Outsourcing Their Worth
Joseph’s journey is what this work is all about.
Not just confidence.
Not just clarity.
But ownership.
And when a man starts owning his truth instead of begging the world to reflect it back?
He becomes unstoppable.
This is what we do inside Divine Alchemy.
We don’t coddle.
We don’t cope.
We don’t promote guru bullshit.
We lead.
We heal.
We build from power, not programming.
Much love,
Shawn “Sheshn” Heshmatpour
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