Alchemize Your Confidence.
Alchemize Your World.
Alchemize Your Authentic Power.
A Brotherhood For The Future.
Break free from the extreme ideologies. Find the perfect harmony between self-mastery, relationships, and wealth for true self-confidence and success.
Men Are Being Left Behind. Society Has Failed You.
Today’s society has failed men. Instead of teaching us the skills to thrive, society leaves us confused and frustrated. The Red Pill teaches aggression. Modern mental health doctors prescribe medication. But the real issue? Men are not being taught the right skills – how to balance your strength with emotional intelligence, be driven and at purpose. Learn how to shed off the insecurities that block you from living free, and how to cultivate the masculine values while also connecting with yourself at a deep spiritual level.
There is no sane place on the internet anymore. All of the thought leaders online go extreme in their ideologies because it works with the social media algorithms and they choose their agenda over your mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being.
The self improvement space has made a deal with the devil to shove extreme advice in your mind so you can be sold on “one true way” of living, which there is no such thing.
Only you can define that for yourself.
We’ve all been told that confidence is something you’re either born with, or you achieve through tips, tricks, and social manipulation tactics. But those approaches lead to more anxiety, more self-doubt, and a loneliness pandemic. Why? Because you are being conditioned to not ‘be yourself,’ which is why you are already being controlled by your insecurities in the first place.
The self-improvement space for men is run by thought leaders who either tell you to be cold hearted towards women, and chase wealth OR become a full blown heart-centered spiritual-hippie and to just “follow how you feel”.
The psychology community in the self-improvement space wants to diagnose you with every flavor of trauma that exists in this fast paced evolving world. A new word every quarter to try to tell you there is “something wrong with you.”
But you know what, I can assure you there’s nothing wrong with YOU.
It’s your belief systems that are not in alignment with who you want to be.
It all begins there, and there is no shame about it.
Society has failed to show you this because marketing sells off your pain, not real education. You’ll get surface level tips and tricks instead of teaching you how to truly connect authentically with yourself and others. You don’t need to be somebody else in order to succeed – you need to find the confidence already within yourself. Where you are at right now. And make progress and momentum from here. Because you can’t avoid the present moment if you want to truly create the life of your dreams.
Some examples of this…
Red Pill
Teach you to be hyper-masculine, hyper-independent, cold-hearted, and pure will power at the cost of emotional connection and a healthy overall well-being.
Modern Psychology & Mainstream Medicine
Treat your symptoms with pills and labels or diagnosis, never working on healing you from the root cause.
Big Pharma
They want you dependent on medication, not empowered.
The New Age Hyper-Spiritual Movement
Overly feminine and passive approaches don’t work for men like you who are seeking structure, purpose, and action. All in the name of “trusting the universe” and manifestation.
You’ve been misled.
It’s not about being more “alpha”, finding another pill to fix your problems, or a new-age trendy lifestyle.
You need a balanced approach that combines inner self-mastery WITH the outer skills to succeed in your relationships and career.
What This Community Will Give You
We focus on helping men by blending the masculine drive with the inner work and understanding energy that’s needed for spiritual growth. My community is designed to help you achieve self-mastery, build fulfilling relationships, and generate lasting wealth – without being attached to corny scripts or tactics. You get to create how you can build your social circle, dating life, and wealth from a place that’s aligned with you and your purpose.
Self-Mastery
Learn how to master your thoughts, and emotional state, create a stronger connection with yourself, transform shame into power, and fear into confidence.
Dating, Relationships & Social Life
Attract the right women and social circle for you by being authentic, not manipulative. Create social confidence and influence your surroundings.
Wealth & Entrepreneurship
Find your purpose, build your empire, step into abundance, find value and excitement in your work, and learn to monetize it successfully.
Confidence is not about memorizing pick-up lines, or forcing yourself to become someone you’re not. Confidence is also not how much money you have or how many women you can sleep with. Real confidence comes from reprogramming the belief systems that are holding you back. This community runs off my coaching methods that bridges cognitive science and neuroscience with spiritual-driven values, helping you transform both your mind, body, and behavior so you can show up authentically in every area of your life and successfully get the results you desire – from dating to career to social connections.
You don’t need to follow stupid rulebooks on ‘how a confident man behaves’ or ‘how to become a high value man in the dating market.’ I am not here to teach you to become someone you are not. Society has already done a good job of that, which is why you’re not feeling confident in yourself in the first place. My community is about helping you become the truest version of you. By reprogramming your subconscious mind, we let go of deep-rooted belief systems that make you behave from a place of fear and start creating new programming that drives your behavior from a place of love,self- empowerment, and self-confidence. The root of your fears and insecurities will no longer control you – this is what sets my community and coaching apart.
This community teaches you the essential skills society has failed to provide. You’ll learn how to navigate life with clarity and confidence; balancing both inner growth and outer success. You will redefine your confidence and self worth.
My Story
I wasn’t always confident in myself and grounded in my truth like I am today. My journey started in some pretty dark places. Growing up, I hung around peers who didn’t respect me, I was used, bullied, and mistreated a lot, and I still stuck around. I craved validation, even if it came from abuse. When I hit 20, things got even worse. I was falsely accused of sexual assault, and the world I knew came crashing down. Death threats, my name blasted across social media, and people who I had known for years turned on me. It felt like there was no coming back from this, but I refused to let it destroy me.
I was once just like you – searching for answers in all the wrong places. I tried therapy, I tried reading all the self-help books, and I consumed as much self-improvement content as I could. But it only led to mental masturbation and not actually living out the ideas I was learning. Doctors said I had ADHD and prescribed Adderall. I used it for years without even knowing the problem wasn’t my focus – it was that I wasn’t working on what I loved, and on top of all that I was in my head with so much self-doubt, fear, and shame from my past traumas.. It wasn’t until I worked with my first mentor and learned to reprogram my mind and feel my emotions in a way that fueled me to grow. I learned how to change my subconscious mind, which changed how I showed up in the world. From shame to self-empowerment. From there, everything shifted. This change allowed me to go on dates, expand my network, and make new friends who were aligned with my journey. It was the key to live freely in my own authentic power, and now I am here to help you experience the same. After receiving cognitive-spiritual coaching, everything changed (my Adderall went in the bin). I found my purpose, clarity, and balance.
Everything started to shift in 2021 when I found my first mentor. He taught me about cognitive reprogramming and inner healing. I realized that the stories I told myself shaped my reality. When I finally let go of all the bullshit stories, everything started to click: my confidence, my relationships, and my social life turned around. It was like seeing myself for the first time, and I knew I needed to help other men feel that same shift. That’s when I launched “Sheshn’s Life Coaching.”
Now, I help people who feel stuck and blocked by their insecurities – whether it’s fear of rejection, social anxiety, or not feeling good enough. I help them let go of their past, rewire their mindset, and step into their real power. I’m not here to sell you tricks or scripts. I’m here to help you build real confidence from the inside out. If I could get through my darkest moments and finally step into my own power then so can you.
I started this community to create a space where men can be coached by me, learn from my teachings, connect with myself and other members, grow, and feel understood. After years of feeling isolated and misunderstood, I know how important it was to have a group of like-minded people supporting each other and holding one another accountable. Over my years of private coaching, I understand this is the next best move to help even more people. This community isn’t about quick fixes; it’s about long-term transformation. We push each other to grow, to break past our limits, and to become the best versions of ourselves – together. No man should go through this journey alone, and that’s why I built a space where we rise together.
Your Journey From Insecure To Self-Empowerment
You’ve been missing the essential skills needed to transform. Your actions stem from the way you feel, and the way you feel stems back to your thoughts, and your daily thoughts come from your core belief systems. If you’re not seeing the results you want – whether in relationships, career, or social life – it’s because your deep-rooted beliefs are holding you back. You currently have deep rooted beliefs about yourself that hold you back from living the life you truly deserve. Together, we’ll dive into your subconscious, uncover what’s blocking you, and reprogram your mind so you can finally align with the life you want. While also giving you practical application to apply your new thought processes into your physical reality.
Here’s what we focus on:
Social Anxiety → Social Confidence
Fear of Rejection → Emotional Resilience
Lack of Direction → Clear Purpose and Focus
Stagnant Finances → Entrepreneurial Success
Basic Plans
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Frequently Asked Questions
What makes this community different from others?
This community isn’t just about passive consumption of content or reading tips. Here, we take action together. Every member is encouraged to actively participate in challenges, discussions, and group accountability. I coach you to reprogram your mind and overcome obstacles in a group setting. By joining, you’ll have access to real-time support from myself and like-minded men who are all pushing each other to grow. This is about long-term transformation, not just a quick fix or surface-level motivation.
How much time will I need to commit?
You get out of this community what you put into it. We offer weekly calls, group challenges, and accountability circles, and courses but the time you commit is flexible. While it’s not mandatory to attend everything, the more you engage, the faster you’ll see results. Most members find that dedicating a few hours a week to group sessions, personal reflection, and consistent action brings the greatest rewards.
How does the community support me in overcoming my personal blocks?
This community thrives on collective accountability and shared breakthroughs. We tackle individual blocks together—whether it’s fear of rejection, social anxiety, or past failures. By sharing your struggles, you not only get support but also inspire others who are facing similar challenges. Every time one of us makes a breakthrough, it motivates the whole group to keep moving forward.
What if I’m not comfortable sharing my personal struggles with others?
It’s normal to feel hesitant at first, but this community is a judgment-free zone where you’ll be supported by men who understand what you’re going through, including myself who has been in the trenches of my own pain. We create a space of trust, vulnerability, and growth. Many members find that after a few sessions, they’re able to open up in ways they never thought possible, leading to massive breakthroughs. And if you need time to get comfortable, that’s okay too—you can engage at your own pace. Everything shared in the community is private. Any student of mine caught sharing other people’s privacy and outside of the community will be banned immediately for life.
Do I need to have experience with personal development to join?
Absolutely not. Whether you’re completely new to inner work or have been on your self-improvement journey for a while, this community will meet you where you are. We have members from all walks of life, at different stages of growth. You’ll have access to tools, resources, and shared experiences that help you build self-confidence, whether you’re just starting out or looking to deepen your transformation.
How will the community help me build confidence in my social and dating life?
Through our group work and collective accountability, you’ll be consistently supported as you take steps outside your comfort zone. On top of that I am here with resources from the courses to help you understand and reprogram the root cause of any fears, doubt, and emotional blocks that keep you from putting yourself out there. Whether it’s approaching women, expanding your social circle, or developing deeper relationships, the community is there to celebrate your wins, hold you accountable to your belief systems, push you through obstacles, and keep you on track. You’ll learn from the successes and challenges of others, so you’re never alone in your journey.
What if I decide to leave the community?
If you decide to leave, you’re welcome to return at any time. Please note, there’s a $100 membership rejoining fee if you choose to come back after leaving, which helps maintain the integrity of the community, which is commitment to growth and change..
Can I still get results if I don’t participate in everything?
Yes, but the more you engage, the better your results. The strength of this community lies in participation. Weekly calls, group challenges, and discussions are designed to push you forward. However, we understand that life happens, and if you can’t attend everything, that’s fine. You’ll still have access to recorded sessions, resources, and tools to continue working on your personal growth.
Is there a money-back guarantee?
No, we do not offer a money-back guarantee. Transformation requires work, and while we provide the tools, guidance, and support, the results depend on your commitment. We’re here to help you every step of the way, but if you’re not putting in the effort, the responsibility is on you. We can’t do the work for you, but we’ll stand by you while you climb your own mountain.
How quickly can I expect to see results?
The pace of results varies from person to person, depending on how much you engage with the community and put the practices into action. Some members see shifts within weeks, while for others, it’s a gradual process over several months. Remember, this is about long-term growth, not a quick fix. The community is designed to support you through consistent and sustainable transformation.
What kind of people join this community?
Men from all walks of life who are committed to the journey to overcome their own obstacles and step into their authentic power. Whether you’re struggling with confidence, social anxiety, dating, or just looking for a group of like-minded men to grow with, this community is for you. We’re here to support each other through the highs and the lows, and every member brings something valuable to the table.
What is a Life Coach?
A life coach is a person who counsels and encourages clients on matters having to do with careers or personal challenges.
Why Hire a Life Coach?
What is the Difference Between Coaching and Therapy.
A lot of modern day therapy goes off the basis that there is something wrong with you, and that you need to be fixed. The biggest problem with therapy right now is that it focuses too much on making meaning of your past. This only does so much if you want to see a massive transformation. With my style of coaching, I go into it knowing that there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I help you understand yourself, and most importantly listen to yourself too. Your past experiences can be useful, but we focus on your future and help you live it in the now.
How Are You Different Than Other Coaches?
I don’t tell you what to do. I don’t tell you to do things that don’t resonate with you. I would just be conditioning you into somebody you’re not if I did that. I guide you to find yourself and I teach you on how to trust yourself in anything you want to do. I coach you so you can learn who you are at a DEEP LEVEL and then guide you to apply that knowledge in the real world.
If I commit to your community, who can I expect to become by the end of it?
You will have the confidence to go after anything you desire. Your inner world and outer world will be aligned. Not only you will have the physical differences but most importantly you will FEEL confident in who you are within yourself. The way you will perceive reality will be coming from a more grounded, confident and stable place.
Is your program a risk?
Not at all. I am not even being biased either. This is a lifetime transformation.
Think about how much money you spend per month on drinks, going out to eat, technology, video games, toys, weed, and other distractions. This is a lifetime investment that guarantees becoming confident for life. I help you overcome your insecurities from the ROOT so you don’t have to deal with them ever again.
It isn’t just about the money. It is about personal freedom, feeling it, and living it too. This is a life transformation.
