You are afraid of rejection from women so you avoid dating all together.
Every time you have put yourself out there you feel disappointed, rejected, or misunderstood by the women you attract
So in order to avoid feeling those feelings again you avoid dating all together but now you feel lonely.
You know deep down inside of you that you need to put yourself out there again.
But it feels scary and overcoming that fear has been extremely difficult for you.
You are afraid of expressing how you feel to the women you meet
The idea of creating conflict and stepping on her toes feels scary for you
The last thing you want to do is be disliked by her or lose your her
You want to give her your best impression but are suppressing who you are to avoid saying "the wrong thing" to turn her off
You hesitate putting yourself out there because your past relationships were fueled with chaos
You are afraid to get into a relationship with arguing and hostility
Vulnerability is something you struggle with and you have walls up to be intimate with women because you have trouble believing they will support you and care about what you have to say
It is hard for you to put yourself out there because you beat yourself up a lot
You feel like you could be achieving more and doing more with your life
You fear that she will reject you because you have not achieved enough yet as a man
You feel so overwhelmed by the demands of life that you overall don't feel like you are good enough to build a relationship with an "attractive woman"
If any of those scenarios listed above are something you can relate too it is because they all comes down to the thoughts you have about YOURSELF.
At some point in your life something happened that created fear when it comes down to how you relate to other people and society, especially with women.
• Maybe you were rejected by girls back in middle school or high school
• You may have deep rooted limited beliefs on your self-worth at a young age
• You may get discouraged when taking on new challenges easily
All of these patterns begin to develop at a young age and they interfere with your ability to date because your self-confidence is being blocked.
Your mind subconsciously hangs on and attaches you to belief systems that you picked up from your childhood, teenage years, or early adulthood experiences and wants to protect you from a chance of disappointment, rejection, or powerlessness again.
So now your anxiety with women is a protection from you to have ever face rejection again.
I also used to have these issues with women too
I tried therapy, I tried reading all the self-help books and consumed as much self-improvement content as I possibly could.
This only lead to more mental masturbation and not actually living out the things I was learning.
It was when I was coached by my mentor using the methodology, cognitive mastery & emotional ownership, was when things started to shift in my favor.
This methodology helped me learn how to reprogram my mind and feel my emotions in a way where they did not stop me but FUEL ME to expand and grow.
By rewiring my mind to become more confident I was able to go on dates, expand my network, make friends who were aligned on similar journeys as myself and most importantly LIVE FREELY
I now have successfully coached over 50 people overcome their social anxiety and become calm, confident, and unapologetically themselves wherever they go in life and most importantly HAVE PEACE for who they truly are and how they show up.
This is why I focus on coaching people with social anxiety.
I have been there and seen how POWERFUL this methodology truly is.
Now is time for you to change your life and take MASSIVE ACTION on becoming the person you have always dreamed of becoming.
A life coach is a person who counsels and encourages clients on matters having to do with careers or personal challenges.
Hiring a life coach will speed up the process of the problem you are trying to solve. As people, we need mentors and guides. Learning on your own through books, podcasts, and videos can certainly improve your knowledge but a coach can show you how to apply it and feel it too. My students are able to discover themselves in a matter of a few months rather than treading water for many years.
A lot of modern day therapy goes off the basis that there is something wrong with you, and that you need to be fixed. The biggest problem with therapy right now is that it focuses too much on making meaning of your past. This only does so much if you want to see a massive transformation. With my style of coaching, I go into it knowing that there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I help you understand yourself, and most importantly listen to yourself too. Your past experiences can be useful, but we focus on your future and help you live it in the now.
I don’t tell you what to do. I don’t tell you to do things that don’t resonate with you. I would just be conditioning you into somebody you’re not if I did that. I guide you to find yourself and I teach you on how to trust yourself in anything you want to do. I coach you so you can learn who you are at a DEEP LEVEL and then guide you to apply that knowledge in the real world.
This is an academy where other students are involved. Will you still be able to give me private coaching and attention?
Yes, one private coaching call a week for us to build a relationship and help you implement the learning modules and overcome your personal struggles is included in the academy subscription.
Not at all. I am not even being biased either.
First, if you don’t like my program after the first month you are fully refunded.
Second, This is a lifetime transformation.
Think about how much money you spend per month on drinks, going out to eat, technology, video games, toys, weed, and other distractions. This is a lifetime investment that guarantees becoming confident for life.
It isn’t about the money though. It is about personal freedom, feeling it, and living it too. This is a life transformation.
Nope. Not at all. Just the monthly subscription and your commitment to learn and overcome your fears.
You will need about 20-30 minutes a day for homework and then about 1.5 hours – 2 hours per week for coaching (both group and private)